A Baby Girl!

-by the proud new papa

On Tuesday morning Heather got a call from our social worker and immediately called me. We got our referral! Until now, we'd all been assuming we'd end up with a son, but as it turns out, a beautiful baby girl is waiting on us. To make a long story short, we received the referral packet and reviewed our baby's background. We consulted with a family friend who is a pediatrician (trying to remain logical and objective - a pointless attempt). And on Wednesday I called the agency to accept our daughter, of course. Then we got pictures by email. I thought I was awestruck from the referral packet and the word-picture it painted. I was pretty much in love at that point. I was wrong. The pictures came in my email and it was over. I'm a goner. Completely smitten. Funny how a packet of papers and a few photos could make this all so real for me.

And now, this proud daddy would like to introduce to you...

Our baby girl, Luci Kate!



Luci was born - get this - on my birthday, July 16, 2008. How cool is that? The photo is at 5 months old (we think). She's a tiny, gorgeous thing and already melting hearts from half the globe away. (I'm trying to figure out how to bargain for that rockin' baby throne, too) Below are her 1 month, 3 months, and again 5 months old photos (this time with her foster mom).


Funny how I was so cool with the wait for referral. It was no big deal for me (though it was really beginning to wear on Heather). I knew we'd get referral of the right baby for us at the right time. Now I'm completely opposite: I'm anxious and impatient at best. They tell me she'll be here in God's perfect timing. Well, that sounds great and all, but I'm waiting for my baby girl who's separated from me by 15 time zones. I want to bring her home NOW people!

So I guess the difficult wait is upon us. We've sent in the formal acceptance paperwork (saying 'yes' requires a boat-load of signatures!). We're filing all the right US Gov. forms, feeding the bureaucracy with a singular purpose in mind - paving the way for my little girl to come home to us.

In the mean time, this big, furry, burly daddy is having fits. I've cried when I thought of buying a stuffed rabbit I once saw and sending it to her. I get all tight in the chest when I see her little picture staring down at me from the mantle. If you think you're coming to our home to hold her, well, you'll have a tough time prying her from my arms. I'll warn you. It won't happen easily.

And if there are any 6 month old little boys reading this and making plans for knocking on my door in about 16 years to take Luci out. I'm watching you...

Evolution of our Fireplace

We have been in the process of renovating the living room since we moved into the house last September and it is finally FINISHED!

When we moved in there was a black wood stove on a tile pad in the middle of the living room. Coming out the top was a black pipe that curved up into our tall ceilings. It just didn't fit with my idea of the rest of the house...looked kind-of out of place. So our first order of business as new home owners was to tear out the stove. We did that with the help of Jason's brother, Kerry, and our nephew, Dylan, as you can see from the first picture.


Kerry then built a frame for the fireplace, routed a gas line to a tank below our back deck, and attached the mantle. This was a slow process which we pieced together over the next year. I wish I had thought to have Jason save a picture of our plywood box, but we didn't so I have nothing to show...

Finally, this November we got the rock ordered and hired a guy to come and rock in the fireplace. We LOVE the end result. It completely changed the look of the whole house. Suddenly this is the focal point of our living area. It really warms up the house, in more ways than one! Now with the push of a button (on a remote, of course) we have an instant fire! Below is the after picture.


We had a busy, but wonderful Christmas! We went to Harrison for our niece's (Allie) one year birthday and stayed to have Christmas with Jason's side of the family the next day. Then we had Christmas with my side of the family here on Christmas Eve. My brother and his wife even got to come for the week from Arizona. We had a wonderful time getting to visit with our families over the holiday.


We wish everyone a very Happy 2009. Jason and I can't wait to find out what God has in store for us this year!

In the dark... On rope...

So Heather has been telling me to contribute to our blog and suggested that I do a little write-up of a couple of recent caving and rappelling events.

Once in awhile, as time permits (in actuality - rarely) I'm a caver. I got started with a buddy in 1994 and caved actively until 2000 when we moved to Tennessee. When we moved back to Arkansas I ran into a few cavers and my interest was rekindled. I'm a member of the Boston Mountain Grotto of the National Speleological Society. Our grotto caves pretty actively, and I go when I can. This fall, I took advantage of a grotto training course in single-rope techniques and vertical caving (NSS Basic Vertical). It gets taught on demand every so often, so I couldn't pass up the chance. The organized caving world likes to have folks certified in vertical techniques before you join a trip with any vertical passage.

In October, I went to southern Missouri with our grotto and explored a couple of caves there. The main event for the weekend was a cave with 3 vertical pitches ranging from 15 to ~30 feet. Not exactly dizzying heights, but fun. Below is a picture of me waiting to head up the rope on the first pitch. You'll notice my caving fashion sense. Yes... Those are tights. Function before fashion folks - those tights dry fast, stay warm, and allow a grizzly bear-sized caver like me to avoid getting hung up.


A couple of weekends ago, my Basic Vertical class did our qualifying rappel. The NSS requires a rappel of at least 200 feet in order to finish the course. We headed to Hemmed-in-Hollow on the Buffalo National River. This is one of my favorite places to hike to. I've stood at the base of the falls and wondered what it would be like to rappel off the top - this was my chance. We rigged 2 main lines at 235 and 215 feet respectively. Below are a couple of pictures of me heading over the edge and in mid-descent. It was amazing.


In adoption news - there's no news. Heather has been doing what I call fuzzy math: she's tracking our progress up the waiting list based on where we began and monthly totals of referrals. We figure we're in the top 10, possibly top 5. We're hoping to get a referral call around Christmas or at the new year. Until then, we wait. I'm looking forward to getting our little one here and showing them the wonders of the outdoors!

Indian Creek Hike

We recently took advantage of our beautiful Fall weather and went for a hike through Indian Creek. We began at Kyle's Landing on the Buffalo and followed a trail till we came to a small trickle of a waterfall and Arkansas Cave, which is closed year-round due to usage by endangered bat populations. The hike was through some rugged but gorgeous landscapes. Jason climbed up the bluff a little further than I did...just to explore. Our goal was to make it to the Eye of the Needle, but since we were running out of daylight that will have to wait for a return trip.

I've attached some pictures of myself and Jason on the hike.
I also included one of the sunlight coming through the turning leaves and one of the swans who make Boxley their home. Enjoy...

Movin' on up...

I know it has been a while since I last posted, but our lives have been pretty routine during the past month. Work, school, work, school, etc...

This past Thursday we received the monthly waiting families letter from our adoption agency. I, as an "expectant" mother LIVE for these. This one, as usual, brought a flurry of emotion with it. In the past 2 months 8 more referrals have been made...that means we have moved up 8 spots on the waiting list. By my estimation that puts us about 7 places from the top. Now I hate to get my hopes up, but since there seem to be 8-10 referrals every 2 months that means that we could VERY LIKELY have our referral in December or January! Jason was overwhelmed to think that our child is most likely born and being carried around on their foster mother's back as we speak!

The wait seems to go on forever, and I know that it could likely be longer than this, but I am praying desperately that our referral comes soon! What an amazing Christmas present that would be!

Please help me as I pray for our child's health and well-being, physically and emotionally. I pray for the person who is caring for our child. And I pray for patience and that during this wait the Lord is preparing our hearts and minds to be parents.

Until next time...

The Buffalo River in September!

This past weekend Jason and I went kayaking on the Buffalo River with some friends. A much needed retreat!

We put in at Ponca and took out 10 miles down-river at Kyle's Landing. Unbelievable! That float just doesn't happen in September! We had a week of rain which made the float possible and the water couldn't have been more perfect!

Toby, Katie, Naima, and Rob went with us and witnessed as I had my first turnover EVER! And as Jason puts it...I liked it so much the first time that I did it again and again! That's right! I turned over three times. I'm just glad it was a warm, sunny day and not one of our January trips!

I'm including some pictures of our beautiful float. Unfortunately the picture taking ended shortly after it began because I had the camera and it got a little wet. The pictures are (in order of appearance): Jason on the side of the river taking a nap on our lunch, Katie paddling down the river, and Naima, Toby, Rob, and Jason gazing at one of the beautiful Buffalo bluffs. Not all the spots on the river were as peaceful as these pictures...just the right amount of rapids to keep the trip interesting!

I just hope that this is the first of many floats this fall!